Looking After Yourself

Self-care means doing the things you enjoy and taking deliberate steps to support your physical, emotional, mental, social, and spiritual wellbeing. Having a clear plan makes it easier to practise self-care regularly — not just when you're already stressed. This worksheet helps you build a personalised self-care menu and commit to small, realistic actions across the week.

Work through each step below in turn. Use your self-care menu to inspire your weekly plan — small and consistent always beats ambitious and unsustainable.

📋 Check In With Yourself

Start with a short self-assessment to see how well you're currently looking after yourself.

đŸ—‚ī¸ Map the Five Areas

Review which areas of self-care you're supporting — and where you may need more focus.

🔋 Notice Your Energy

Like a battery, some things recharge us and others drain us. Track what lifts you and what leaves you low.

📆 Plan Small Actions

Build a personal self-care menu and plan small, realistic actions across the week.

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How Well Do I Look After Myself?

Looking after ourselves and paying attention to our own needs is an important skill. For each statement, choose the score that fits you best.

3 = Very like me 2 = Like me 1 = Unlike me 0 = Very unlike me
My score
0 / 48
Answer the statements above to see your score.
2

My Self-Care Checklist

Tick the things you already do. This helps you see which areas you're supporting and where you may need more focus.

💚 Emotional

Participate in hobbies
Get away from distractions (e.g. phone)
Learn new things
Express my feelings through art
Regularly communicate with family/friends
Find reasons to laugh
Watch an enjoyable movie
Go on holidays or day trips
Recognise/celebrate my achievements

đŸ’Ē Physical

Eat healthy foods
Look after personal hygiene
Regular exercise
Do enjoyable activities
Get good quality sleep
Get regular health checks
Take time off/rest
Stretching/relaxation exercises

đŸ•Šī¸ Spiritual

Spend time in nature
Meditate
Pray
Act in accordance with my values
Set aside time for thought and reflection
Participate in a cause important to me

🤝 Social

Spend time with people I like
Make a phone call to a friend
Have stimulating conversations
Meet new people
Spend time with my friends
Ask others for help when needed
Try a new class or activity
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Build My Self-Care Menu

Write down activities you can turn to when you need rest, balance, or energy. đŸŒŋ Remember: You don't need to do something different every day — repeating activities that work is perfectly fine. The goal is consistency, not variety. Even on difficult days, one small act of self-care sends an important message to yourself: I am worth looking after.

4

My Weekly Self-Care Planner

Plan one small, realistic self-care action for each day. Tick it off once you've done it.

Day
One small self-care activity
Time of day
Done
5

My Self-Care Energy Grid

Each day, reflect on what boosted your energy or mood — and what left you feeling drained, stressed, or low.

Day
🔋 Energised / lifted me
đŸĒĢ Drained / left me low

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